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Notwithstanding in-patient hospice provision at Peterborough, Lincoln etc, patients and those closest to them need the skills & care provided by a LOCAL hospice in their LOCAL community. 

Out of the hundreds of letters we have received supporting our aim to provide Hospice Beds in Boston for the South East Lincolnshire community  We are privileged to share with you the three stories  below from Skegness    -   Moulton Marsh  -   Boston.

The majority of patients enter a hospice for symptom relief and the average length of stay is between five to seven days per individual.  Once their symptoms are under control, (usually quite quickly) and the condition is stabilised -  they return home until such time as they again need help.  

Therefore a 'bank' of up to 8 rooms enables treatment and respite for many more terminally ill patients.  The Butterfly Hospice Trust, is exploring partnership working with other hospice and day care providers to maximise palliative care provision in the South East Lincolnshire Area. 


From the East of our Region!

SKEGNESS (June 2008)

Sandy's Story

I would like to share my reasons for  supporting the Butterfly Hospice Trust.  Up until 18 months ago I was a normal mum and took my carefree life for granted.  That all changed in November 2006 when my beautiful son Nick, then aged 23 was diagnosed with terminal kidney cancer.

Nick's cancer was very aggressive and his condition quickly deteriorated & although he was adamant that he wanted to stay at home, it soon became apparent that his pain was not being controlled and he would have periods when he was screaming for hours.  He was admitted to the local hospital on several occasions to try to find the right level of pain control but after waiting days to see a doctor he was sent home no better than before - download file to read the rest of my story and why I intend to support the Butterfly Hospice Trust

Further South - working with other Hospice Groups

SPALDING - BHT are working closely with the Spalding Hospice Group to try to ensure that there sufficient beds available to meet the needs of terminally ill residents in the Spalding and Holbeach areas.  Sue Wray, founder of both hospice groups is eager to ensure an in-patient hospice network to provide the best possible support for individuals and families.  Sue believes that there is not a competition between the various Lincolnshire providers - 'it is all about providing quality in a person's life and support for the family during traumatic time'

BOSTON

'I write to offer my support for hospice beds in Boston after reading your article in the local press. I am a single mum with a young family living in Boston. I was diagnosed with cancer several  months ago. I had chemotherapy at Pilgrim hospital and some radiotherapy at Lincoln hospital.

At first I was able to drive and found it not too difficult to travel for my treatment, but as time has progressed and my health became worse, I am no longer able to drive and sometimes find it difficult to look after myself: relatives help with the children.

Recently it was decided that I would benefit from a short stay in a hospice but there were no beds available in Lincoln at St Barnabas, so I had to go to Thorpe Hall at Peterborough. I hated every minute, the care was loving, kind and everything I hoped it would be, but I felt lonely and isolated because my family could not afford to visit every day, I really missed my children. My children were also unhappy and they too felt isolated as they were unable to visit.

A hospice close to home would mean so much to a patient like myself, I do hope your project will be successful and beds will soon be available.

Alison


PALLIATIVE CARE BILL

 'No other field of health care depends so heavily on the voluntary sector for funding it's core clinical services. This statement was made in response to Baroness Finley's Palliative Care Bill debate in the House of Lords in February 2007 (www.theyworkforyou.com).  

 Dr Peter Dawson,  stressed the recognised shortage of palliative beds across Lincolnshire and in particular the south and east.  He stated ' The Butterfly Hospice Trust has been set up in order to address these needs on behalf of the local population'.


MOULTON MARSH Nr Fosdyke

"When my wife was diagnosed with Cancer the treatment services provided by the NHS swung immediately into action, and great efforts were made to bring about a successful outcome. However, after a period of some twelve months it was recognised that my wife's condition was beyond further treatment and that sadly her life expectation was probably not more than six months.

Faced with such a dreadful prognosis, what my wife (and I) most needed was support, advice and services that would enable her to live as near normal existence as possible during her remaining months. Regrettably, largely due to the lack of a local Hospice, the real situation was far from what we had hoped for.

No pain Consultant was in post locally and no Palliative Care In-Patient facility was available - the nearest Hospice, in Lincoln some 40 miles away had no beds available.  When my wife's illness moved into its final stages she was in great pain which could no longer be controlled at home: in the absence of a local Hospice  or a bed elsewhere, she was admitted to an inappropriate ward at the local General Hospital. 

Whilst not wishing to be overly critical of staff who were trying to do their best, the lack of anyone trained in Palliative Care resulted in my wife (an uncomplaining and courageous woman) spending the last two days of her life crying out in constant unmanaged pain and begging for the end to come. Immediately after her death the staff had no idea how to handle her family and dealt with the situation by vanishing into a staff room. The Bereavement Service offered by the Hospital closed for the weekend at 5pm on a Friday, my wife died at 6pm.

Some few months after the death of my wife, my Mother In Law was admitted to a Hospice in the North of England, suffering from an almost identical condition. The difference in the way the properly trained (in Palliative Care) staff handled the situation was amazing. Whilst obviously Ma's passing was sad, she was not in pain and unlike my dear wife died with some dignity.

The difference in the two circumstances described above served to make it very clear to me how important it is to ensure that Hospice provision is made available for residents from our area"

Preston

 


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